Learning The Hard Way

Today has been a busy one! And on top of the business, it was one of those days that I felt like the kids knew they outnumber me! I am pretty sure, or maybe just hoping, that I am not the only one who has experienced this from time to time! Chris and I have a big joke going...when I look exhausted or run down, he will sometimes whisper in my ear, "You CAN NOT let them know they outnumber us" or "You CAN NOT let them know when they outsmart us"...it always makes me giggle, but honestly, the kids are smart little creatures, who most of the time, know just what to do! ;)
We had lots of running around to do today, and after VBS every night this week, I think everyone is just overly tired, and since the rain finally stopped, most of the time, it's only 198 degrees outside! Which contributes to everyone's mood as well, I am sure!
Today consisted of a lot of redirection and discipline...I don't like days like this...I don't having to teach the hard lessons, but in the same breath, I know it must be done!

Today, my big boy's strong personality was in full force! He's a thinker, a doer, an "I have to learn the hard way" kinda kid! This can be a huge struggle some days, because it literally feels like all I do is correct him. I know that strong will and determination will serve him well later in life and his need to be "busy" will make him a great husband one day! But it sure can make child rearing a challenge! ;) I love that boy to the moon and back, but I know that part of loving him is holding standards, giving him responsibility, teaching him right from wrong, teaching him about cause and effect and consequences (good and bad)! This is a tough job! This parenting thing is serious stuff! And to think you only get one shot at it doesn't add any pressure either!

I did NOT like the consequences that he earned today! I didn't want to do it, and could have easily given in when he says with tears streaming down his cheeks "you know I have learned my lesson! You know I am sorry"...and I did know that he was sorry, but as I have explained over and over, an apology doesn't erase the consequence of our bad choices, but it does, however, get the rest of the day off to a better start! He got over his discipline just fine, as painful as it was for both of us, and I hope that after a nice long night of sleep, he will be in much better spirits tomorrow, and maybe he won't be up for learning anything the hard way!! ;)